12 October 2021

Proverbs 23:15-16

My son, if your heart is wise,
    then my heart will be glad indeed;
16 my inmost being will rejoice
    when your lips speak what is right.

So speaks a father, and so concurs a mother. Parents want what they perceive is good for their children. Most want their children not to suffer and to succeed in life in the various forms that success is measured. Mostly, they want their children to be happy. They may differ with their children about what makes up happiness or how to attain it. But to see their children content and happy contributes to their own happiness.

This proverb gets under the surface of outward happiness to what really matters to most parents – to have a child who is wise. It is the goal of the parent to guide a child to maturity, to discern between right and wrong, to make wise choices regarding friends, to apply oneself in education, to be dependable, to take a career that is fulfilling and provides for one’s needs, to choose a good spouse should one marry, and to wisely raise good children should children be granted.

The parent cannot disconnect his or her happiness from his child. He will grieve over a child’s foolishness and rejoice over the child’s wisdom. That is how it should be, for that is the natural relationship God has established between parent and child. We are connected to our children and to our parents. We cannot control others, but we can care about honoring our parents through our own pursuit of wisdom and about blessing our children through teaching and modeling wisdom. And we can honor our Father through pursuing the wisdom he has revealed in his Word and living out the “foolishness” of the Gospel.


Psalm 82

God presides in the great assembly;
    he renders judgment among the “gods”:

“How long will you[a] defend the unjust
    and show partiality to the wicked?[b]
Defend the weak and the fatherless;
    uphold the cause of the poor and the oppressed.
Rescue the weak and the needy;
    deliver them from the hand of the wicked.

“The ‘gods’ know nothing, they understand nothing.
    They walk about in darkness;
    all the foundations of the earth are shaken.

“I said, ‘You are “gods”;
    you are all sons of the Most High.’
But you will die like mere mortals;
    you will fall like every other ruler.”

Rise up, O God, judge the earth,
    for all the nations are your inheritance.